 tutorial tuesday estim guide and review of estim accessories part 2 tutorial tuesday estim guide and review of estim accessories part 2 admin tue 1242017 1600 bondage wall cbt chastity estim tutorial live with roommates need to be discrete frequent visitors need to hide kinky gear live alone no need to be discrete renter cannot damage walls or ceilings lack of storage space more than 50 usd less than 15 minutes no tools required 2b pro pack estim power box abox estim power box deluxe humbler with estim attachment points electro lockdown chastity cage electrosex gel electropebble estim power box erostek remote control estim power box sensavox deluxe estim power box zeus deluxe digital power box  row differentvalues  col differentvalues  ndimage differentvalues  align center animation zoomin animationdelay 500 fid 924 ndimage ndtabs align uppercase  bold 1 nopaddings  differentvalues  type top ndtab title intro active 1 differentvalues  ndalert text always play safely please read safety section before continuing dismissible  differentvalues  extraclasses cfontred2 cfontbold textalign center animation bounceinup animationdelay 500 type alertwarning ndalert html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  if you missed part 1 you can find it  here  there are several estim power boxes out there to choose from but no good power boxes that i would consider inexpensive but how do you know which one you ll like best there are even more by far estim accessories but will the commonly known blue bands get you off or the conductive rubber loops are the silicone cock rings the best way to punish your sub or should you just stick with the pads that most estim boxes include it sucks spending a lot on estim gear only to have the experience turn out to be pretty boring or worse to compltely turn you and or your sub off to the entire experience causing you to never want to try it again gboy has been expressing a strong interest in trying estim with me for the first time you want to know what power boxes and accessories work best and give you the most bang for your buck so i figured why not do both at the same time below you ll find various estim power boxes and several accessories along with ratings and reviews of each the ratings and reviews are partially my personal opinions of them and partially gboy s reviews upon his first experience with each this often changes over time as a sub gets used to estim however many of you who haven t tried it are wondering how it feels and what s best to try first so this guide should especially help the estim virgins out there html ndtab ndtab title safety active  differentvalues  html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  as always make sure bdsm kink play is safe sane and consensual never leave your sub alone during bdsm play prepare everything needed before restraining your sub so there s no need to step away until after you ve released him when using rope or any tightly fitting cuffs always periodically feel your sub s hands feet balls whatever is tied to ensure they aren t cold cold is a sign of circulation loss which needs to be addressed immediately by removing the restraints in that area before your sub gets hurt specific to this week s tutorial it s important to know your sub and what he can handle before engaging in this type of play with a sub especially if he s restrained and even moreso if he s gagged make sure he has a safe word and a safe sound hand signal equivalent if he s gagged if you or your sub aren t at a point where you trust each other 150 don t engage in this type of play until you reach that point obviously your sub needs to trust you first but also you need to know that you can trust your sub as well if your sub feels something is too much and you don t have that level of trust both ways he may be afraid to tell you then things can get out of hand as a rule of my own i won t even do estim play with a sub unless i ve known him for quite a while and played with him many times before it s just better all around having a better idea of what the sub can handle as well as building trust first so gboy has waited quite a while for this opportunity if your sub has anxiety issues and has never tried estim before be extra cautious and don t restrain him for his first estim session you don t want to completely ruin the experience for him and have him never wanting to try it again also always start on a low estim setting when you turn the power box on then slowly ramp up if when your sub is ok with it once you know your sub s tolerance level after playing with estim with him a few times you could start slightly higher html ndtab ndtab title implementation active  differentvalues  html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  you may choose to restrain your estim experienced sub using rope  locking leather cuffs  or whatever you choose just be careful using additional toys gear that may be wet lube etc as this can create hotspots when using estim and might end up being a complete turnoff for your sub put the required batteries into your estim power box be sure to remove them when done as you don t want batteries corroding in your power box which you spent good money on place your choice of estim accessories on your sub be sure to use the proper gel as this tends to distribute the sensation more evenly and avoids hotspots in undesired areas see below for recommended gel which can vary with some accessories turn on the power box at its lowest level sometimes the lowest level or two can either not be felt at all by a sub or it can be a more annoying prickly feeling than anything it s still important to start at the lowest level as every sub has different tolerances to estim if it s kind of annoying and or barely felt you can go up to the next level a few seconds later and see how that level feels a detailed list of several estim accessories complete with reviews and feedback from my sub gboy in his  hot leather bulldog harness  is below if you don t like the feeling you get from estim when using double accessories such as two loops two bands etc you may want to try reversing the black and red electrodes different subs feel this in different ways but it may be as easy as reversing these to make things feel better electro lockdown chastity cage   this one is a nice idea to for those into chastity and estim both since it combines the two experiences that being said i wouldn t recommend this device for longterm wear it s better for use strictly within play sessions although i often say it isn t really chastity until the sub wants out then he looks down and realizes someone else owns his cock and even though that probably won t happen during a short session i don t feel it s all that safe to keep a sub in this device longterm due to plenty of potential pinch points i d recommend this one most for either a session of a few hours or potentially overnight or a weekend of supervised play lock it on so your sub can t jerk off then if he s especially bad all you have to do is plug in the electrodes and punish him  recommended gel  for this one i recommend using standard electro gel such as  zeus incite electrosex gel  not tac gel since the chastity cage will be locked on anyway there s little to no chance of the estim contact points slipping so tac gel isn t necessary here but i d still recommend some type of gel since it definitely helps make for a better estim experience for most subs as it smooths out the wouldbe zaps and pinching feelings gboy s opinion of the electro lockdown chastity cage   the estim chastity cage was a very interesting experience after being put into the cage and my cock automatically trying to get hard and filling the cage it felt good as the estim was turned on it compared more the the adjustable penis bands that we tried when it came to the feeling definitely made my cock want to stay stiff   html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 925 ndimage ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 926 ndimage html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  and an even closer closeup shot html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 927 ndimage html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues   estim pads  most estim power boxes include pads usually 4 of them typically you use either 2 pads or 4 pads at the same time and normally one electrode connects to each pad and the current flows through the sub from one pad to the other the pads typically have a sticky backing and come with the sticky side stuck to thin pieces of plastic most claim that they can be used again and again without losing their stickiness i m not so sure how true that is or how long they d last from my experience a few tips to help make them last longer if you can avoid sticking them on your sub in hairy areas avoid sticking them down then pulling them up and readjusting too many times try to get it right the first time as each time you pull it back up to readjust the pad just might be counted as one of those uses for example if the manufacturer claims a sticky pad will stick on 50 uses you just may use 6 of those uses simply readjusting due to poor planning as for how the pads feel i ve found that subs can handle a lot higher intensities with the pads on areas other than their dick balls vs most other accessories with gboy i took him up to level 4 or 5 with most accessories where he reached the max he could handle with the pads he could pretty easily handle level 7 or 8 before he reached his limit recommended gel  for the pads i recommend using standard electro gel such as  zeus incite electrosex gel  or tac gel may be better if you find the pads are no longer sticking to your sub gel definitely helps make for a better estim experience for most subs as it smooths out the wouldbe zaps and pinching feelings for tac gel scroll down on  this page  and click on tacgel gboy s opinion of the estim pads on his inner thighs   not nearly as intense of a feeling as the estim on the cock i felt much stronger against this type of estim but it definitely made my legs quiver   html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 928 ndimage ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 929 ndimage html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues   gboy s opinion of the estim pads on area above groin   this was interesting as it was making the muscles in my abdomen twitch and flex again not as intense as estim on the cock area   html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 930 ndimage html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues   deluxe humbler with estim attachment points   this device is a typical humbler with some added features if you aren t familiar with a humbler it locks on your sub s balls while he s kneeling on all fours and the ends of the wooden device curve to wrap around the back of his thighs see the device in the lower let area of the parts pic near the top of this post this prevents your sub from standing up at least if he likes his balls and wants to keep them intact some humblers have two separate pieces of wood bolts that go through them and wing nuts to tighten them i have one of those and let me tell you it s a pain in the ass to get on a sub without pinching his balls or worse accidentally crushing them a bit the deluxe version linked above takes care of this problem and adds estim attachment points in front and back of your sub s balls the deluxe version is hinged so while one hand is wrapped around your sub s balls pulling them through the middle hole safely the other hand can be carefully closing the humbler allowing it to click shut then it requires a key to unlock it unlike the standard version recommended gel  for this one i recommend using standard electro gel such as  zeus incite electrosex gel  not tac gel since the humbler will be locked on anyway there s little to no chance of the estim contact points slipping so tac gel isn t necessary here but i d still recommend some type of gel since it definitely helps make for a better estim experience for most subs as it smooths out the wouldbe zaps and pinching feelings gboy s opinion of the deluxe humbler with estim attachment points  unfortunately we didn t have time to try this one but when getting a good look at it gboy thought it looked interesting devious kind of humiliating since it keeps the sub down on the floor and something he really wants to try in the future zeus deluxe digital power box   this power box doesn t have all the bells and whistles of some that provide sound activation motion sensing or remote functions it s not programmable like some of the really expensive power boxes however it is one that i d recommend for estim beginners i say that because it offers several estim patterns not just one it also has many strength intensity levels and it s a great overall start to see if you like estim or not without short changing yourself by trying out a power box with only one function with one you either like it or hate it then many judge estim all together based off of that one experience with this one you ve got 7 completely different patterns to try at various levels if you hate them all then it s probably a pretty good assumption that you re not an estim candidate if you like one or two it may be worth pursuing and eventually purchasing more advanced power boxes or different accessories gboy s opinion of the various functions of the zeus deluxe digital power box  gboy tried out all functions because he s just one of those curious subs who likes to try things at least once it s the only way you ll ever know if you like something or not right however as i suspected from previous experience he liked  massage  and  cupping  the most as far as strengths he could hardly feel most patterns at levels 1 and 2 note on this box level 1 shows 1 bar level 2 still shows 1 bar at level 3 and 4 a second bar appears etc in other words only 1 bar shows for every 2 levels after he got used to things a bit we quickly went up to level 3 on most patterns then 4 he maxed out at level 4 on most but went to level 5 on a few the only exception was with the pads which he went as high as level 8 with this animated gif shows progression from level 1 through level 10 again level 10 on this box is  not  when 10 bars show on the display html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 931 ndimage ndtab ndtabs col row  