Yes, there's a video, a short video though. Whether or not it will end up on here, not sure yet. Or it could end up on here available for purchase with points, if I ever find the time, energy, and patience to finish up the points program that I wanted to start on this site. To summarize, general site participation which makes the site better for everyone...would earn points. Then points could be redeemed for things like video clips, some of which are exclusive and not even available for purchase anywhere else. That's the plan anyway. Now I just need that week or two in my life when absolutely nothing else is going on to pull me away from the deep thought process of pulling that together in a way so everyone can benefit from it, and nobody can abuse it. ;-) As for your question about where do we go from here when a sub truly can't handle a predicament I put him in...that's really handled on a case-by-case basis as well. I've never had a sub completely collapse from something I put him in and left him in too long, not realizing soon enough that he really couldn't handle it. However, if I had, then I certainly wouldn't move him immediately into something else. That would call for some downtime, potentially some holding/cuddling, just depends on the sub and the situation. typically though, I would move him into something else. And he might actually have some down time because I normally pre-plan most things I do, and having a replacement not pre-planned, he may be able to relax a bit during the time it takes me to prop something else. Make sense?