Come on, I'm not ALWAYS sadistic! *evil grin!* (Oh, maybe I should have left the evil grin part out, just to sound more convincing when I said that?) But seriously, I actually don't believe in pain just for the sake of pain. I don't normally do things like whipping or flogging a sub just for the hell of it. So the extent of my sadisticness is normally with predicament positions where the sub is in control, to some extent, of what happens to them. Granted I may give them very limited choices which all may suck for them in one way or another, of course. ;-) But that being said, I have been known to restrain a sub and just tease him endlessly, edge him but not let him cum, lock him back up in chastity, maybe after a ruined orgasm, those types of things. Although some may call that sadistic as well. What do you think?