 tutorial tuesday estim guide and review of estim accessories part 1 tutorial tuesday estim guide and review of estim accessories part 1 admin tue 1172017 1600 bondage wall cbt estim tutorial live with roommates need to be discrete frequent visitors need to hide kinky gear live alone no need to be discrete renter cannot damage walls or ceilings lack of storage space more than 50 usd less than 15 minutes no tools required 2b pro pack estim power box abox estim power box conductive rubber estim cock loops estim cock straps electro eggs electrosex gel electropebble estim power box erostek remote control estim power box sensavox deluxe estim power box the red collection estim insertables zeus deluxe digital power box zeus electrosex penis bands zeus incite electrosex gel  row differentvalues  col differentvalues  ndimage differentvalues  align center animation zoomin animationdelay 500 fid 914 ndimage ndtabs align uppercase  bold 1 nopaddings  differentvalues  type top ndtab title intro active 1 differentvalues  ndalert text always play safely please read safety section before continuing dismissible  differentvalues  extraclasses cfontred2 cfontbold textalign center animation bounceinup animationdelay 500 type alertwarning ndalert html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  there are several estim power boxes out there to choose from but no good power boxes that i would consider inexpensive but how do you know which one you ll like best there are even more by far estim accessories but will the commonly known blue bands get you off or the conductive rubber loops are the silicone cock rings the best way to punish your sub or should you just stick with the pads that most estim boxes include it sucks spending a lot on estim gear only to have the experience turn out to be pretty boring or worse to compltely turn you and or your sub off to the entire experience causing you to never want to try it again gboy has been expressing a strong interest in trying estim with me for the first time you want to know what power boxes and accessories work best and give you the most bang for your buck so i figured why not do both at the same time below you ll find various estim power boxes and several accessories along with ratings and reviews of each the ratings and reviews are partially my personal opinions of them and partially gboy s reviews upon his first experience with each this often changes over time as a sub gets used to estim however many of you who haven t tried it are wondering how it feels and what s best to try first so this guide should especially help the estim virgins out there html ndtab ndtab title safety active  differentvalues  html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  as always make sure bdsm kink play is safe sane and consensual never leave your sub alone during bdsm play prepare everything needed before restraining your sub so there s no need to step away until after you ve released him when using rope or any tightly fitting cuffs always periodically feel your sub s hands feet balls whatever is tied to ensure they aren t cold cold is a sign of circulation loss which needs to be addressed immediately by removing the restraints in that area before your sub gets hurt specific to this week s tutorial it s important to know your sub and what he can handle before engaging in this type of play with a sub especially if he s restrained and even moreso if he s gagged make sure he has a safe word and a safe sound hand signal equivalent if he s gagged if you or your sub aren t at a point where you trust each other 150 don t engage in this type of play until you reach that point obviously your sub needs to trust you first but also you need to know that you can trust your sub as well if your sub feels something is too much and you don t have that level of trust both ways he may be afraid to tell you then things can get out of hand as a rule of my own i won t even do estim play with a sub unless i ve known him for quite a while and played with him many times before it s just better all around having a better idea of what the sub can handle as well as building trust first so gboy has waited quite a while for this opportunity if your sub has anxiety issues and has never tried estim before be extra cautious and don t restrain him for his first estim session you don t want to completely ruin the experience for him and have him never wanting to try it again also always start on a low estim setting when you turn the power box on then slowly ramp up if when your sub is ok with it once you know your sub s tolerance level after playing with estim with him a few times you could start slightly higher html ndtab ndtab title implementation active  differentvalues  html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  you may choose to restrain your estim experienced sub using rope  locking leather cuffs  or whatever you choose just be careful using additional toys gear that may be wet lube etc as this can create hotspots when using estim and might end up being a complete turnoff for your sub put the required batteries into your estim power box be sure to remove them when done as you don t want batteries corroding in your power box which you spent good money on place your choice of estim accessories on your sub be sure to use the proper gel as this tends to distribute the sensation more evenly and avoids hotspots in undesired areas see below for recommended gel which can vary with some accessories turn on the power box at its lowest level sometimes the lowest level or two can either not be felt at all by a sub or it can be a more annoying prickly feeling than anything it s still important to start at the lowest level as every sub has different tolerances to estim if it s kind of annoying and or barely felt you can go up to the next level a few seconds later and see how that level feels a detailed list of several estim accessories complete with reviews and feedback from my sub gboy is below if you don t like the feeling you get from estim when using double accessories such as two loops two bands etc you may want to try reversing the black and red electrodes different subs feel this in different ways but it may be as easy as reversing these to make things feel better conductive rubber cock loops  these are actually electrified rubber loops an electrode goes in either end of the thin rubber tube there s a hole at each end to insert the electrode into then you simple slip the loop over your sub s cock balls or cock balls together and slide it into position do the same with the other rubber loop then tighten the loop with the included piece designed to do so see closeup photo below  recommended gel  for this estim accessory i recommend using tac gel scroll down on  this page  and click on tacgel most estim gel is too slippery and will cause the conductive rubber cock loops to slip and roll out of place from where you want them tac gel is stickier and thus helps to keep the rubber loops in place just be careful when removing the rubber loops as your sub s skin may stick to them but typically rolls off of them pretty easily gboy s opinion of the conductive rubber cock loops   these felt the most pleasurable out of the estim accessories that i experienced it was a more massaging and pulsing feeling as it was turned up definitely think this would be the one that would potentially get me to cum   html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 915 ndimage ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 916 ndimage html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues   zeus electrosex penis bands   the penis bands are what many tend to start off with in their estim experience however these are not my estim goto although the bands go around the sub s dick there s only one point on each band where the electro current is coming out of this tends to create almost a hot spot feeling while the electro sensation can still travel through the sub s dick based on where you place the bands i don t think they make for as good of an experience as some other estim accessories recommended gel  for this one i recommend using standard electro gel such as  zeus incite electrosex gel  not tac gel gel definitely helps make for a better estim experience for most subs as it smooths out the wouldbe zaps and pinching feelings gboy s opinion of the zeus electrosex penis bands   this one was more of an uncomfortable feeling as it was more like pins being felt with what started in the balls and i could feel it to the head of my dick wasn t a bad unbearable feeling but definitely not as pleasurable as the conductive rubber loops especially the more we turned it up   html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 917 ndimage ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 918 ndimage html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues   silicone bipolar cock ringset  the bipolar cock ring set looked like a really hot concept in my opinion to begin with i liked the way the electro didn t come from a single spot like the zeus penis bands above which should help distribute the electro feeling a bit even without gel this may have been the case if they worked well however it was a real bitch to get these things to hold in place the set comes with a smaller ring and a larger ring the basic idea here is to use the larger ring about the sub s cock balls both and the small ring around the sub s dick just under the head or on any part of the shaft the ring around the cock balls both wasn t so bad and it fit fairly well the one around the shaft not so much i could see this being an issue on a small cock that isn t very thick but gboy s cock is pretty thick i d say average to above average when hard i ve seen thicker but not by much recommended gel  for this one i recommend using standard electro gel such as  zeus incite electrosex gel  not tac gel gel definitely helps make for a better estim experience for most subs as it smooths out the wouldbe zaps and pinching feelings if you find that the rings are a pretty good fit but slipping a bit you can also try using tac gel scroll down on  this page  and click on tacgel the tac gel should help keep the rings from sliding out of position as long as they re fairly snug to begin with you can use just one of the rings in this set by plugging both electrodes into the smaller ring or into the larger ring gboy s opinion of the bipolar cock ring set when using only the smaller ring under cock head   this one was definitely the most uncomfortable that or i was just getting uncomfortable from the feeling felt like more intense pins and needles should be used more as a punishment i don t think i could get off from this one  gboy s opinion of the bipolar cock ring set when using only the larger ring around both cock balls   this basically took the feeling of the small ring but moved it to the balls more   html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 919 ndimage html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  you can see in this closeup photo how even the smaller ring is too large and barely holding on even though gboy s dick isn t soft html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 920 ndimage html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  or you can use both rings at the same time to make the electro sensation travel between the two rings just plug one electrode into each ring gboy s opinion of the bipolar cock ring set when using both rings at the same time   this made the feeling of the two previous ones more spread out throughout my whole cock and balls   html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 921 ndimage ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 922 ndimage ndtab ndtabs col row  