 tutorial tuesday safe cbt part 1 tutorial tuesday safe cbt part 1 admin tue 2072017 1600 cage cbt chastity feet forced workout predicament bondage puppy play stress position tickling tutorial live with roommates need to be discrete frequent visitors need to hide kinky gear live alone no need to be discrete renter cannot damage walls or ceilings lack of storage space less than 10 usd less than 15 minutes no tools required adjustable bungee cords dog crate locking leather cuffs rope rope lock tie down 8 feet x 18 inch  row differentvalues  col differentvalues  ndimage differentvalues  align center animation zoomin animationdelay 500 ndimage ndtabs align uppercase  bold 1 nopaddings  differentvalues  type top ndtab title intro active 1 differentvalues  ndalert text always play safely please read safety section before continuing dismissible  differentvalues  extraclasses cfontred2 cfontbold textalign center animation bounceinup animationdelay 500 type alertwarning ndalert html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  are you really into the idea of cbt but want it to be effective enough while still remaining safe hopefully you always play safe cbt doesn t have to involve you brutally kicking your sub in the balls and please don t ever do that torture the t in cbt doesn t have to involve pain at all think of the last time you went a few days without getting off due to lack of time or other reasons at the point when you finally jerked off what if you hadn t what if you forced yourself to wait a few more days or edged yourself on and off for a few hours first would that have been torture i ll bet it would have felt like torture to you how about when you workout you could probably pump out a few more reps but nothing is really motivating you to what if your balls were on the line not in an unsafe way but what if your balls got stretched a bit if you didn t finish your workout i ll bet that would motivate you  the first part of this multipart series requires nothing but rope sure you can add a few things to make it more interesting but if all you ve got available is rope you can get by with just that and a few things around your home  html ndtab ndtab title safety active  differentvalues  html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  as always make sure bdsm kink play is safe sane and consensual never leave your sub alone during bdsm play prepare everything needed before restraining your sub so there s no need to step away until after you ve released him when using rope or any tightly fitting cuffs always periodically feel your sub s hands feet balls whatever is tied to ensure they aren t cold cold is a sign of circulation loss which needs to be addressed immediately by removing the restraints in that area before your sub gets hurt specific to the safe cbt tutorial series safe assumes common sense and reasonable precautions any safe technique could be made unsafe if someone is being careless for example what may be safe for 510 minutes may not be safe if left in place for hours all the more reason not to leave the room when your sub is restrained to check on him regularly to make sure he s ok and to ensure he not only has a safe word but also a safe signal in case he s unable to speak ie if he s gagged be sure you have a pretty good idea of your sub s strength and endurance level before using the ideas below even if you think you know him well watch him while in these predicaments and be ready to release him and his balls within seconds if it looks like it s too much for him also always use quickrelease methods especially when using cbt simple clips or carabiner clips work great for this such as clipping two lengths of rope together so you don t have to untie knots in an emergency if you don t have anything like that around at a minimum keep a pair of scissors nearby that s strong enough to cut through whatever rope or straps you re using it s all fun and games until your sub loses his balls html ndtab ndtab title simple frog tie cbt active  differentvalues  html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  lay your sub on a bed table or just on the floor have him lay on his back to make things easier for you using medium thickness rope too thin may bite in and or cut off circulation more easily and too thick may slip off more easily tie one end of a rope around the base of his balls you can optionally tie the rope around his dick and balls together especially for subs with more sensitive balls pull your sub s feet in toward his thighs far enough so it s difficult for him to hold them there but not impossible run the rope from his tied balls around both of his big toes then tie that off now your sub has some motivation to keep his feet where you left them his first reaction will be to extend his legs to relax them more but if he does that his balls will pay for it so he ll want to keep them right where you put them hmm are your sub s feet ticklish might be a great time to find out see what he opts for taking the tickle torture on his feet or moving his feet trying to escape it but yanking his balls instead for subs with more sensitive balls or who are extremely hesitant to try this you can use a bungee cord in place of part of the rope just tie a short rope around his balls and tie an extra loop in the rope do the same with a short rope around his big toes then use a short adjustable bungee cord to connect the two rope loops and adjust as necessary note the chastity cage in the photo below is not required although it does add a nice touch html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 950 ndimage ndtab ndtab title the wrist bone s connected to the twin brothers of another bone active  differentvalues  html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  yep in this one you ll actually connect your sub s restrained wrists to his balls but just doing that would be boring why not turn it into a stress position tie a short medium thickness rope around your sub s balls with an extra loop tied in it so you can connect something else to it cuff your sub s wrists together behind his back using locking leather cuffs or just plain rope i would avoid using handcuffs for this one as they can dig in over time and you may want to leave your sub in this one for a while have your sub kneel down in a closet with a hanging rod over his head or something similar above him that you can loop a rope over have something in front of him that you can also loop a rope through a bed is perfect if you re able to slide one over within reach and it s what was used in the photos below you can easily loop a rope around a bed rail and the bed should be heavy enough that your sub s balls won t win a tug of war contest with the bed rail next i d recommend using a rope lock tie down or you can just use plain rope whichever you choose connect one end to your sub s tied hands behind his back run the rope up over the closet rod bring it down in front of him loop it through the bed rail then back to his tied balls you ll want the rope to be taut enough so your sub is forced to keep his arms up behind his back somewhat uncomfortably in order to avoid tugging on his balls or arching his body forward like a bow if you opted to use a rope lock tie down or similar ratchet strap instead of rope it s tons of fun  clickclickclicking  the rope tighter shorter and watching your sub strain and struggle a bit more with every click if you have a simple way to connect your sub s cuffed feet to something behind him that will prevent a sneaky sub from trying to inch his way forward as an alternate way to make this one easier on him in this example i used a spreader bar clipped to locking leather ankle cuffs and the spreader bar was clipped to a closet shelving rail behind the sub now your sub has a few choices but none of them are so great 1 keep his arms yanked up high and uncomfortably behind his back 2 lower his arms and as a result pull his own balls out forward more 3 arch his body forward like a bow to avoid stretching his own balls when his arms drop behind his back html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 951 ndimage ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 952 ndimage ndtab ndtab title hello mr balls going up active  differentvalues  html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  this one is very easy to setup and highly adjustable based on your sub s fitness level endurance and attitude tie a rope around your sub s balls and tie an extra loop in the rope using a rope lock tie down or plain rope and a few knots will work hook one end of the rope to a closet rod and let the other end hang down restrain your sub s hands behind his back using locking leather cuffs or rope avoid metal handcuffs since he may be laying on them at times and that could hurt pretty badly then have him lay on the floor under the rope that s hanging down hook the other end of the rope lock tie down to your sub s tied balls then crank his balls up until the rope is taut or a few notches higher now you ve got your sub by the balls literally this is a great time for an interrogation  did you eat the last piece of pizza did you jerk off yesterday while i wasn t home what do you think about when you jerk off i want details   if he is tightlipped or gives you an answer you don t like just crank his balls up a few notches higher and see if he s singing a different tune html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 953 ndimage ndtab ndtab title strappado predicament active  differentvalues  html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  this is another great predicament for an interrogation tie a rope around your sub s balls and tie an extra loop in the rope restrain your sub s hands behind his back using locking leather cuffs or rope have your sub stand under a closet rod then hook a rope lock tie down to the closet rod above him and hook the other end to your sub s tied cuffed hands then crank them up a bit until he s forced to bend over at the waist if you have locking leather cuffs and a spreader bar lock a spreader bar between your sub s cuffed ankles then use rope or a bungee cord to connect his tied balls to the middle eyebolt in the spreader bar if you don t have locking leather cuffs and a spreader bar just use a lengh of rope tie one end of the rope to his big toe on one foot run the rope up through the loop you left in the rope tied around his balls and down to his other big toe then tie it off there in either of the above cases you ll want the rope or bungee cord short enough so your sub is forced to bend his knees a bit or a lot again depending on your sub s endurance and just how bad he s been lately now he has to choose between his quads working overtime and eventually screaming for mercy as well as his arms yanked up uncomfortably behind his back and the alternative of trying to stand up a bit higher and stretching his balls more than they ll want to be stretched if he s still being bad shorten the lower rope or bungee cord so he has to squat down even more html ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 954 ndimage ndimage differentvalues  align center fid 949 ndimage ndtab ndtab title caged workout active  differentvalues  html format ckeditor pcolor fwhite differentvalues  has your sub been bad and now you have him locked in a cage but he s been a really bad boy so you don t want him just lounging around in a cage relaxing maybe even sleeping right just restrain his hands and feet using locking leather cuffs or rope just make sure his hands can t reach his feet or his balls tie a rope around your sub s balls and tie an extra loop in the rope then use a bungee cord ideally or rope and connect his tied cuffed ankles run the rope up over the cage bars then down to his tied balls and tie it off there you ll want to make the rope bungee short enough so he can t completely rest his feet and he has to keep them up in order to avoid stretching his balls some html ndimage differentvalues  align 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